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Mar26
How To Deal With Disappointment

If you work from home, then it's bound to happen sooner or later. You're going to have to face disappointment in your business.

It could come in the form of a rejection letter. It could be a failed product line. It could be the loss of a major client.

However it comes, one thing that you can be sure of is that it will happen. You will be disappointed. Disappointment just comes along with the territory when you work from home.

I actually think that home business owners are more susceptible to disappointment from work because they tend to be more emotionally invested in their work.

I remember early last year when I was offered a blogging position on a topic that was near and dear to my heart. I was all ready to start until I read the company's non-compete clause, which basically would have prohibited me from publishing anything else online. Since this blogging position wasn't going to pay enough that I could live on the income, I had to turn the position down. I was so disappointed, I think that I cried (off and on) for about two days.

These things just happen when you work from home.

Here are some tips for dealing effectively with disappointment: crying.jpg

  1. Let yourself grieve. You may think that losing a major client or being rejected for a publication is no big deal. Let me assure you, if you put a lot of effort into it, then it is a big deal. Go ahead and cry. You work from home, nobody will see you.

  2. Re-evaluate. Once you've gone through the grieving process, take an objective look at what happened. Is there anything that you can learn from the experience? If so, what is it?

  3. Grow. Use what you've learned from your failure to improve your businesses future endeavors.

  4. Move on. Don't get caught up in what might have been if only you had not ... been rejected for publication, lost the major client, had a failed product line, turned turned down for the loan, and so on ...

I was surprised that I couldn't find much information on business disappointment. Perhaps the articles are out there and I'm just not seeing them. Or, perhaps we don't we don't want to admit how much business failure affects us.

However, I did find this helpful post on how his business thinking has changed over the years from Rob May at the Business Pundit blog. While it doesn't deal directly with the topic at hand, I thought his list was interesting. You might too.

What about you? How have you dealt with business failure? Why do you think there is so little discussion about this topic?

Leave a comment and let us know. 

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Great post and tips! My biggest disappointment occurred four months ago. I was accepted into About.com's prep course (local guide for my city). For three weeks, I poured all my energy into building my guide site. I really wanted the position, and I gave it my all. In the end, they chose another guide for the topic. I was so depressed, I didn't work for two days. But, I eventually decided to stop feeling sorry for myself, and I snapped out of my funky mood and got back to work. Since then, I've landed two great opportunities.

Thanks Valencia!

I'm glad that everything worked out for you. I know this sort of thing happens, I wonder why more people don't talk about it.

Great post! Maybe because everybody likes reading about the guys who made a six figure income last year. Nobody wants to hear about the considerably larger numbers of failures out there!

I think you hit it on the head, Laura - nobody wants to stand up on the hilltop and proclaim, "Hey, y'all! I didn't get the job! Yea!"

But a case can be made that the majority of success or innovation actually stems from some initial failure! Might be a good subject for an entire blog, come to think of it: "Great Ideas - That Didn't Work (And What I Learned From Them)"

Maybe... you don't see a lot of this because we're all still in the learning stage? :-\

We are just human, Laura. It's natural to grieve over disappointment because no one likes to be a loser. I push myself out of the darkest, deepest valley of grieve by repeatedly telling myself that it's okay to be afraid of failure (because failure has consequences) but I cannot be afraid of failing. I have to keep doing. Maybe, maybe, my cheese is just round the next corner which I cannot see. I will grieve for a day or two or maybe even more. Then, somehow, I will emerge from the valley. Scarlett O'Hara said, "Tomorrow is another day."

Hi Preschool Mama, Robert, and Vivienne!

You all make such great points. I understand why folks might be reluctant to share their failures, but I still think that there ought to be more posts that acknowledge that it's okay to fail as long as you don't give up.

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